The right kind of smile can make otherwise unattractive people potently irresistible to others. Whether you are swinger dating or attending a sex party, your chances of success are hugely increased by having a smiling face.
Although some lucky people seem to be born with a natural smiling face; with practice, anyone can learn how to create and project the sort of smile that swinger couples and singles find irresistibly attractive.
Smiling is a swinger dating double aphrodisiac. It works on both the recipient and the sender. You smile and you feel sexy, making the other person feel sexy too. But the kind of smiling that works this way is much more than a cheesy grin or a strained effort at looking happy. The double-aphrodisiac sort of smile is born from a genuine good-to-be-here feeling. Forced smiles, smirks and polite grins are more likely to be the seeds for swinger dating disasters than seduction, so it is essential to understand the difference between these and the truly irresistible smiles that you need to cultivate. The successful swinger smile is the kind that exudes playfulness yet comes from the heart with a genuine message which says; 'I feel good about you and good about me too'.
A double-aphrodisiac smile is especially important for single guys who want to get into the swinger lifestyle. Women are irresistibly drawn towards men who smile this way. They love to flirt with smiling guys and they want to have sex with them. There are good reasons why this is the case. Smiling tells them that the guy is a positive, self confident person and women want their men to have these qualities. It also tells them that the man is going to be fun to be with. Most important of all it tells them that he really likes her and feels genuinely attracted towards her. Swingers want these things as much as anyone else and the guy who just wants a free fuck without any interest whatsoever in the other person is unlikely to have much success in swinger dating.
For female swingers, smiling is the thing that is most likely to make them attractive. We have met many who felt the need to make themselves more attractive by having breast implants. Everyone of them considered the size and shape of their breasts to have more bearing on their physical attractiveness than any other factor. They were wrong. Apart from the fact that there are plenty of men who are not fans of big-boobs; even an otherwise physically unattractive woman can seem irresistibly desirable if she has the right smile. Think about some women you feel attracted to but can't quite say what it is about them. The chances are that it is the way they smile that gives them their charm.
So assuming you are not one of those very fortunate people who was born a naturally smiling face, how do you go about creating one? The answer is that you will just have to do the same thing that people do to learn and develop any other skill; you will have to practise it. As stupid as it might sound and make you feel, practising smiling means standing in front of a mirror and pulling faces. Smile into your mirror for sustained periods, several times everyday. Treat it just like an exercise routine; just as you might do for learning to play a musical instrument, for example.
The first aim is to improve the facial muscles that control smiling.
Begin with your face and lips in a relaxed state. Watch your reflection as you try to make happy expressions.
Keep stretching the corners of your mouth to the sides whilst holding your lips together. Hold this stretch
for ten seconds and repeat ten times.
Do the same exercise again but this time with your lips parted.
Repeat the exercise once more, exposing your teeth in a laughter-type smile.
Finally open the smile as wide and hard as possible and hold it for ten seconds.
Increase the flexibility and control of your smiles by toning up your cheek muscles.
Start by smiling as wide as you can with your lips closed. Whilst holding onto this, twitch your nose to make your
cheek muscles work with the smile.
Repeat the exercise ten times.
This exercise prevents facial sagging.
Slightly open your mouth and relax the upper lip. Flare your nostrils and pucker up your nose.
Raise your upper lip and hold it up for ten seconds before slowly releasing it.
Repeat exercise ten times.
It is almost inevitable that you are going to feel pretty silly doing these exercises at first and the smiles you create will feel forced and false. But keep at it because the real smiles will only come naturally when your facial muscles have been properly conditioned. By practising in everyday situations you are gradually going to get better at producing and maintaining real smiles. One of the greatest things you can do to make this happen is to think of things that naturally make you smile or laugh. Fake smiles look fake, insincere and unemotional. When you add humour, relaxation and a genuine interest in another person to your smiles, they will turn into genuine smiles.
Practise smiling when you are at work, when you are socialising and most of all when you are swinger dating. If you haven't signed up already do it now and you could be hooking up with swinger singles and couples within a few days.
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