Southampton's swingers community enjoy free swinger parties

In and around the city of Southampton, our thriving and dynamic swingers' community has flourished for many years and is one of the largest in the country. Yet, it is still growing and welcomes new singles and couples of all ages and backgrounds. A few of our more experienced members independently organize and host swinger parties in their own homes, as well as at hired venues, hotels and even in local holiday cottages.

House Parties in Hythe

One of our most enthusiastic and busiest swinger-party hosts are Sian and Neil. They are a couple who have been throwing some of the horniest events you'll ever get to attend, in their beautiful home in Hythe for several years now.

The parties are usually mixed couple / single events with male:female ratio being controlled by selection. Typically, this means inviting 10-12 couples, 4-6 single females and a matching number of single males. As with all swinger parties, some people fail to turn up; even after confirming. At Sian and Neil's events the proportion of non-arrivals varies between 10 and 20 per cent.

The swinging usually gets going following an hour or so of socializing in the kitchen and lounge. For couples who prefer private foursomes, one of the bedrooms can be locked but all other rooms are open for group-sex in full view of any guests who wish to watch.

Participation in any sexual activity (group or otherwise) is only allowed when full consent is given. In other words; always ask first and accept that No means No.

Harefield.

The nearest to the centre of Southampton is in Harefield. It is a lovely, detached house with five bedrooms, although only three of them are opened as playrooms. Two of these have ensuite facilities and are large enough for group play. The smaller room is ideal for private foursome or threesome play.

The Harefield parties are usually attended by between 15 and 30 guests who want varied levels of participation that range from voyeurism to full penetrative sex.

Chandler's Ford

The owners of this stunning home in the Chandler’s Ford area have laid on some fabulous parties for swingers who enjoy playing party games.

This is a surprisingly unusual activity for swingers at most parties elsewhere. Those who do enjoy playing naughty games love the parties held at this venue and often bring new ideas for new games and variations for old ones. The hosts believe that swinger games make the perfect ice-breaker for many couples, and singles too. Their own personal favourite is Naked Twister but it is not always one that their guests feel happy about playing. Truth or Dare is the game played the most often.

Like many other party venues these days, guests are expected to hand in their mobile phones to the hosts upon arrival to ensure that no secret photography or videoing can take place.

Swanwick

The couple who own this spacious and luxurious home in Swanick are relatively new to the scene. Their own love for dressing up has encouraged them to hold themed events. These have included Toga and Lingerie parties which proved to be very popular.

More parties are planned for the future and it is hoped they will be held at regular monthly intervals eventually.

New Forest

Many years have passed since Southampton’s most well-known swinger party venue closed. It even had a name - ”Swingers Junction” - and was located on the edge of the New Forest in Totton.

It's setting, in nearly an acre of screened-off countryside, was less than five minutes from Junction 2 of the M27, with easy access from Southampton city centre, the Southwest, Portsmouth, the M3 and M25. Swingers from much further afield were regular guests at its regular parties.

However, the New Forest area is still a very active one for local swingers with hotels and holiday cottages making ideal venues for discreet liaisons and small parties.