Swinging for New Couples
For new couples who are toying with the idea of swinging, an author well worth looking up is Natalie Robinson. Her books; Swinging For Couples Vol. 1: Beginner's Guide To The Swinging Lifestyle, and Vol. 2: The Intermediate Guide, make good reading for any couple who wants explore swinging, safely and thoroughly before taking the first step.
The book reveals the benefits of swinging to a couple's relationship but stresses the importance of trust and how it is won by understanding and accepting your partner's boundaries. The author describes, with real-life examples, how swinging can revive the lost feelings of a couple's relationship during the days when they were first dating. She relates how the anticipation and excitement which once burned so passionately can be brought back by the experience of being with your partner when she or he is enjoying sex with someone else.
Candid accounts of how a first visit to a swinger club or a couple's first swinger date are often a nerve racking experiences but by accepting that it is quite natural to feel anxious in these situations, the nervousness soon changes to enjoyable excitement. The book also describes how the first experiences of swinging are only the beginning and how confidence and full enjoyment of the lifestyle can only be achieved over a longer term series of experiences.
On a practical level the books also cover issues such as hygiene, health and ethics, discretion, how to meet other swingers and where to find swinger clubs.
Natalie Robinson's books are available at Amazon and other online booksellers